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Everyone says storytelling is the key to building a personal brand, but what if you don’t think you have an interesting story to tell? Or maybe you’re worried about sharing too much.

 

In this episode, I’m joined by personal brand story strategist Reme Mancera to talk about how to use storytelling intentionally in your marketing. We dive into why your everyday experiences are often the most powerful stories, how storytelling helps build trust with potential clients, and why you don’t need an “epic” life story to create meaningful connections. If you’ve ever struggled to know what stories to tell or how personal is too personal this conversation will help you approach storytelling with more confidence and purpose.

 

In this episode, we chat about:

• Why your everyday experiences can become your most valuable marketing stories.
• How storytelling builds trust and helps potential clients connect with you.
• The difference between authentic storytelling and oversharing online.
• Practical ways to uncover stories from your personal life, clients, and business.
• How storytelling helps you stand out in a crowded market without trying to be louder.

 

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Resources to start exploring your Story Connectors:

https://www.rememancera.com/story-connectors/ 

 

About the Guest:

Reme Mancera is a Personal Brand Story Strategist who guides you to choose the personal stories that feel relevant to your audience, and share them in a clear, succinct way to build trust, create genuine connection and attract aligned clients.

 

Passionate about stories since childhood, she is from Spain and now works 1:1 with clients worldwide (from 23 countries and counting). Reme supports digital service providers, coaches and creatives, especially those navigating a transition in their business and rethinking how they show up and talk about their work.

 

She created the 10 Story Connectors, a strategic storytelling tool to identify 10 meaningful moments from your journey that highlight the benefits of what you offer.

 

Reme also hosts the podcast ‘Who Cares About My Story?’ and the live series ‘Intersection Chats’.

 

She often shares this reminder: Your story is relevant and worth telling! 

 

Connect with Reme below:

https://www.instagram.com/rememancera/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/reme-mancera-postigo/ 

 

Storytelling is everywhere in marketing right now. Scroll through LinkedIn or Instagram, and you’ll likely come across someone encouraging you to “tell your story.” While it’s become popular advice, it often leaves business owners wondering what that actually means. How do you know which stories to share? Do they have to be personal? And if you don’t think you have an interesting story, where do you even begin?

Those are exactly the questions I wanted to explore with personal brand story strategist Reme Mancera. I recently joined Reme on her YouTube and LinkedIn Live to talk about the connection between personal branding and simplified marketing, and our conversation flowed so naturally that I knew I wanted to continue it on the podcast. We both believe storytelling is one of the most effective ways to build trust, but we also know it’s an area where many business owners feel overwhelmed.

Rather than talking about storytelling as another marketing tactic, we wanted to have an honest conversation about why it matters, how to approach it intentionally, and why your everyday experiences often become the stories your audience connects with the most.

 

Why Business Owners Think They Don’t Have Stories

 

I started by asking Reme about her own story and how she became so passionate about helping people tell theirs. She shared that she’s loved stories since she was a child. One of her favorite memories was when the first public library opened in her neighborhood. She couldn’t wait to read all of the books and immerse herself in different stories, something that would eventually influence the direction of her business years later.

As she transitioned into personal brand strategy, she realized that while businesses might offer similar services, every business owner brings something no one else can replicate their own life experiences. “One of the key things in personal brand strategy is differentiation,” Reme explained. “Through the work with clients, I realized that story was always a crucial differentiator because there are more people offering things that can be similar, but no one else has your same life path.”

As she continued working with clients, she noticed a pattern. Most people weren’t struggling because they lacked stories. They were struggling because they didn’t recognize them. According to Reme, people usually fall into one of two categories. Some believe they don’t have an “epic” story worth sharing, while others have so many experiences they don’t know which ones are relevant to their audience.

Instead of encouraging clients to search for one defining life event, Reme takes a different approach. “Instead of looking for one big story, we split that and look for specific meaningful moments,” she explained. “Then we connect those moments to what you do and the benefit of your offer.” That shift helps business owners stop chasing the perfect story and start paying attention to the experiences that already explain why they do what they do.

I laughed when she said that because I see the exact same thing every month with my own clients. During our strategy calls, I’ll ask what’s been happening in their business and personal life, and they’ll spend the next thirty or forty minutes talking through everything that’s been going on. Later, when I listen back to the recording, I realize they’ve naturally shared multiple stories that would make fantastic marketing content. The challenge isn’t that they don’t have stories it’s that they’re too close to their own experiences to recognize them.

I think that’s where many business owners get stuck. They assume storytelling has to involve a dramatic turning point or an extraordinary life event. In reality, the stories that often create the strongest connection are the ones that feel the most ordinary to us because we’ve lived them. They’re the experiences that shaped our values, influenced the way we work, or helped us understand the people we serve.

 

The Story Connector Framework

 

One of the things I was excited to ask Reme about was her Story Connector Framework because I know so many business owners struggle with knowing not only what stories to tell but also how to use them in their marketing. She explained that the framework was created to help people move beyond simply collecting stories and instead connect those stories directly to their business.

Every Story Connector starts with a meaningful moment and pairs it with something you want your audience to understand about your work. As Reme explained, “Each Story Connector is combined in two parts. One part is that specific moment from your journey, and the other part is the key factor or benefit from your offer that is going to be highlighted.” By connecting those two pieces together, your stories become intentional instead of random.

That really resonated with me because I think one of the biggest misconceptions about storytelling is that you should share something personal simply because it happened. Instead, every story should help your audience understand something about the way you work, the values you bring to your clients, or the reason you care so deeply about what you do.

I also loved Reme’s reminder that your stories don’t have to come directly from your business. They can come from previous careers, childhood memories, hobbies, education, or experiences that shaped the person you are today. Those moments often explain why your approach is different, even if someone else offers a similar service.

The same thing happens with my clients. Instead of only asking about their business, I’ll ask what they’re passionate about outside of work. Sometimes it’s sustainable living. Sometimes it’s family, gardening, or traveling. As those conversations unfold, we almost always uncover stories that help people connect with them on a much deeper level because they’re seeing the person behind the business, not just another service provider.

 

Storytelling Builds Trust, Not Just Visibility

 

As our conversation continued, we shifted from talking about finding stories to understanding why they matter. One thing Reme pointed out was that many business owners don’t have clarity around the purpose of storytelling. It’s easy to think you’re simply sharing parts of your life, but she believes storytelling should always have intention behind it.

“It’s not just sharing your CV,” she said. “It’s about sharing stories that are going to explain and emphasize elements that are important from your offering and from how you do your work.”

I think that’s where storytelling gets misunderstood. Sometimes people hear the advice to “be more personal” and assume they need to tell everyone their life story. That’s never been how I’ve approached it. Yes, your stories matter, but they should always help your audience understand something about the work you do or the person behind the business. The story isn’t the destination, it’s the bridge that helps someone move from knowing who you are to understanding why they should trust you.

Reme described storytelling in exactly that way. She explained that every potential client starts as someone who doesn’t know us, and stories help build the connection that eventually leads to trust. Rather than simply listing your services or explaining your process, stories provide context. They show why your work is meaningful to you, what experiences shaped your perspective, and why your approach may be different from someone else’s.

One thing she said really stuck with me: “Use your story as a bridge to build connections and also to show how you are someone trustworthy.” That’s such a simple way to think about storytelling. It’s not about trying to impress people. It’s about helping them understand you.

I shared that one of the core messages throughout my own business is helping people be uniquely you. No two business owners have the same journey, even if they offer similar services. We all bring different experiences, different values, and different ways of thinking into our businesses. Storytelling gives us an opportunity to show those differences naturally instead of trying to convince people that we’re different.

For me, storytelling has always been about trust. We hear people talk about the know, like, and trust factor all the time, but I really believe trust is where people make the decision to work with you. Stories help build that trust because they add context and humanity to your marketing. Instead of simply explaining what you do, you’re helping people understand why you care about the work you do.

 

Storytelling Without Oversharing: How to Find the Right Stories to Share

 

One question that naturally followed was something I know a lot of business owners wrestle with: How personal should you actually be?

I admitted to Reme that I’m an interesting mix because I can be an oversharer in some situations while being incredibly private in others. There are plenty of things that happen in my personal life that never make it onto social media, and I wanted to know how she helps clients find that balance.

I shared an example of my recent surgery. Initially, I wasn’t planning to talk about it publicly at all. But later I realized it wasn’t really the surgery that mattered it was what the experience highlighted. While I was recovering, I wasn’t sitting in the hospital worrying about social media posts or podcast episodes because everything had already been planned. My podcast was scheduled. My newsletter was ready. My evergreen content continued working in the background while I focused on getting better.

That became the story.

It wasn’t about the surgery.

It was about why evergreen marketing and having systems in place matters.

Reme loved that example because it perfectly illustrated the difference between telling a story and oversharing. “You are the one deciding what to share,” she said. “You can tell more about the lesson than telling more about the details.”

I think that’s an important distinction. I didn’t need to explain what surgery I had or every complication that came afterward. Those details weren’t necessary for people to understand the point. The lesson was enough because it supported the conversation we were having about marketing systems and preparing your business for life.

Reme also reminded me that boundaries aren’t fixed. The things you choose to share today may be different from what you’re comfortable sharing a year from now. “Maybe at some point you don’t want to share a specific thing,” she explained, “and later in the future you feel like that’s going to help someone else. You are the one deciding.”

I really appreciated that perspective because it gives business owners permission to create boundaries that work for them. Storytelling doesn’t require you to tell everyone everything. You get to decide what stays private, what becomes part of your marketing, and when you’re ready to tell certain stories.

That conversation reinforced something I say often: storytelling and oversharing are not the same thing. Sometimes all your audience needs is the lesson, not every detail behind it. Authenticity isn’t measured by how much of your life you put online. It’s measured by whether the stories you do choose to tell genuinely help the people you’re trying to serve.

 

Finding Stories in Your Everyday Business

 

As we started wrapping up our conversation, I asked Reme one final question that I think every business owner should consider: What kinds of stories actually build trust? Once you understand that storytelling matters, where should you begin?

Rather than searching for one perfect story, Reme encouraged listeners to think about three areas. The first is your connection to the audience you serve. “Think about a moment in your life that is connected to why you are working with this group of people,” she said. “Why is helping them solve that problem important to you?” Those moments help people understand that your work isn’t just a business it has personal meaning.

The second area she focuses on is your values. She explained that stories from previous jobs, childhood, school, or even hobbies can reveal the values that shape the way you show up for clients today. Those experiences may not seem connected to your business at first, but they’re often the reason you approach your work the way you do. The third area is your unique approach. Even if someone offers a similar service, the way they solve problems will always be different because it’s influenced by their own experiences and perspective.

To illustrate that point, Reme shared the story of one of her clients who works as a life coach. On the surface, there are countless life coaches, but this client’s entire approach revolves around encouraging people to question assumptions. Instead of explaining that through coaching terminology, she tells the story of working in a scientific laboratory where everyone followed the same protocol without questioning it. Eventually, she challenged the process, and the protocol was changed. While the story has nothing to do with coaching, it perfectly communicates the mindset she brings into her work today.

Reme shared another example of a web designer who loves gardening. Rather than treating gardening as something completely separate from her business, she weaves it into her brand. She names her services around gardening themes and uses gardening analogies to explain her design process. Those stories don’t just make her memorable they help people understand her personality and create a connection that goes beyond the service itself.

Listening to those examples reminded me how often we overlook the stories that are already happening around us. We tend to think storytelling has to come from our personal lives, but some of the strongest stories come directly from the work we’re already doing with clients.

I shared that I do this all the time. As we were recording this episode, I was about to jump on a quarterly marketing review with one of my clients. I already knew that conversation would spark ideas for future content because every client question, challenge, or success becomes an opportunity to teach through a real experience instead of another generic marketing tip.

Sometimes it’s as simple as pausing after you’ve written a piece of content and asking yourself, Is there a story behind this? Instead of posting a reminder or sharing another educational tip, think about what happened that led you to that advice in the first place.

I used the example of a bookkeeper. It’s easy to write a post that says, “Don’t forget to do your bookkeeping this month.” That’s helpful, but it doesn’t create much connection. Now imagine saying, “Last month I helped a client save $5,000 because her books were organized.” Suddenly you’ve created a story. You’ve shown the outcome, the emotion, and the impact before asking someone to work with you.

That’s what storytelling does. It gives context to your expertise. Instead of simply telling people what you do, you’re showing them what it looks like when someone experiences the value of your work.

 

Storytelling Helps You Stand Out by Being More You

 

Before we finished, I wanted to ask Reme about something I hear from business owners almost every day: The market feels saturated.

Whether you’re a marketer, coach, accountant, designer, or consultant, it’s easy to feel like there are already too many people doing exactly what you do. I told Reme that while there are plenty of marketers talking about storytelling and plenty of personal brand strategists doing the same we’re all different because we each bring our own experiences and perspectives into the conversation.

Reme completely agreed. She believes storytelling is one of the most powerful ways to stand out because your story is something no one else can copy. While someone else may offer a similar service, they can’t recreate your life experiences, your values, or the way those experiences have shaped your business. Those are the things that naturally make your approach different.

One of my favorite examples she shared was about another client who uses gardening stories throughout her brand. On the surface, gardening has nothing to do with web design, but that’s exactly what makes it memorable. It reflects who she is, what she enjoys, and how she thinks. Even if someone isn’t interested in gardening, they connect with the passion behind it. As Reme explained, those stories help clients realize they’re connecting with a person, not just another business.

That idea perfectly captures why storytelling matters. It’s not about trying to become more interesting than everyone else. It’s about becoming more recognizable as yourself. The stories you choose to share reveal your values, your personality, and your perspective in a way that educational content alone never can.

One thing Reme said that has stayed with me is that storytelling adds “volume” to who you are. Instead of blending into everyone else, your stories reveal the different parts of your personality and the experiences that shaped you. They help people understand that there’s a real person behind the business and that’s often what creates the strongest connection.

As I reflected on our conversation afterward, I realized we kept coming back to the same idea. You don’t need a bigger story. You don’t need a more dramatic life. You don’t need to share every personal detail online. You simply need to start paying attention to the moments that already exist in your life and your business.

Those everyday conversations with clients, the lessons you learn, the experiences that shaped your values, and even the hobbies you love outside of work all contribute to the way you serve your clients today. When you begin sharing those stories intentionally, your marketing becomes more than a collection of tips and educational posts. It becomes a reflection of who you are.

And that’s what builds trust.

Not because your story is extraordinary.

But because it’s yours.